I turned 42 years old this year and I started playing organized sports when I was about 7 years old, so...let me do some math here...that makes it about 35 years that I have been in sports as a participant, coach or administrator.
In that time I have seen and heard a lot of speeches, preaching, leading, coaching, teaching, musing, philosophising, etc. This has been from coaches, fellow players, parents, pupils, colleagues, gurus, and on down the line. I have almost heard it all. I can say that unless there has been a significant level of SUBSTANCE to what has come out of a given person's mouth, I really don't think it has meant a lot to me. In fact, if there is a lack of SUBSTANCE I actually find it offensive that someone would think I, or anyone else, might be interested in their sermons. I am confident I am not alone in this assertion.
So what is this SUBSTANCE I speak of? Well, it has a lot to do with "walking the walk versus talking the talk" and little to do with "do as I say, not as I do". In the awesome free world we live in (well, mostly free) we can pretty much say whatever we want. An incredible right and privilege we have. However, there is nothing that constitutionally guarantees that whatever we say actually means anything. I believe that the only way your words have meaning is if you actually LIVE THEM everyday...in the flesh...not in your fantasies.